The round-up of July’s queer-focused leather/kink/fetish events is here! There are many opportunities for local kinksters to connect and learn.
If you would like us to feature your queer-focused leather/kink/fetish event in our monthly posts, please fill out this form. If you know of one but aren’t the organizer, feel free to Contact Us and include what information you have.
8:00 p.m. – 2:00 a.m.
CC Attles, 1701 East Olive Way, Seattle 98122
Cost: None
Event link: https://www.facebook.com/events/651421253502098
Dress code: https://www.ccsseattle.com/dress-code
Description:
Every FIRST Saturday of the month is CC’s Seattle Fetish Night. Gear up in your favorite fetish attire and join your friends for a hot night of great drinks, and sexy surprises.
Come out and show off your fetish. Get into the 4th of July spirit with the crackle and sparkle of the wand.
The dress code (https://www.ccsseattle.com/dress-code) will be enforced; coat check available. Fetish Night is about expression, it is an event for gear or theme-based participants. NOT SPECTATORS! If your fetish is not gear-based or is about voyeurism, this event is not for you.
4:00 p.m. – Midnight
CC Attles, 1701 East Olive Way, Seattle 98122
Cost: None
Link: www.xlbears.org. Current information is more easily found in the Telegram chat group, click here to join.
Description:
Socialize with Seattle’s friendliest bears at their monthly bar night.
5:00 p.m. – 10:00 p.m.
Lumber Yard Bar, 9630 16th Ave S, Seattle 98106
Cost: Free
Link: https://www.facebook.com/events/270937835482541
Description:
Calling all kinksters to join us every first Monday of the month for All Tied Up: a social night for our community members into BDSM/fetish/kink. Come out to play, socialize and show off! Priority entry for those in fetish gear. Wax, electro, sensation, pet, littles, rope etc. play welcome. We cannot accommodate impact, fire or blood play.
8:00 p.m. – 10:00 p.m.
Online event
Cost: Free for CSPC members, $5 for nonmembers
Link: https://thecspc.org/events/queer-discussion-group/2023/july
Description:
Come join our hosts Jadzia and Elissa on first Tuesdays as we welcome people from all across the kinky and sex-positive queer community. Our focus during this discussion group will be on all the ways our queer identities interact with our kink and sex-positive lives. As queer people, we experience unique challenges and the CSPC is proud to offer a place to celebrate and commiserate through sharing experiences.
We’ll spend the first portion of the meeting checking in about what’s going on in our lives. The rest is spent discussing topics that explore how we navigate our understanding of ourselves and our relationships with others, our society, kink and how we can strive for more self-knowledge and happiness.
7:00 p.m. – 10:00 p.m.
Steamworks Seattle, 1520 Summit Ave, Seattle 98122
Cost: $5 membership, $19 for a locker
Link: https://fetlife.com/events/1272985
Description:
Into getting spanked? Like smacking some bare cheeks? Whether you prefer the paddle, strap or barehand, this event is for you! Note: Steamworks is a male-only venue.
6:00 p.m. – 10:00 p.m.
CC Attle’s, 1701 East Olive Way, Seattle 98122
Cost: None
Link: https://seapah.com/public/schedule/events/48846-sea-pah-meet-sniff-social
Description:
Come be social during SEA-PAH’s monthly Meet & Sniff! Meet up with some old friends, make some new ones, and join with other members of the Pack as we invade CC’s.
Just a reminder we share the space with multiple other social groups. Please be kind and welcoming to them as well.
As always, the Board of SEA-PAH will continue to work with our venues and follow CDC guidelines. If there are any changes, we will put out an announcement and update our website.
7:30 p.m. door, 8:00 p.m. – 10:00 p.m. show
Kremwerk, 1809 Minor Avenue, Seattle 98122
Cost: $22.66 online, $25 at the door
Description:
A new challenge is coming to Safeword! As a twist every comic (Host included) will be stripping during their set! 😀 Please bring cash to tip & encourage them! & to keep our sexy stage kitty purring.
Ever wanted to see hilarious performers pushed to their limits with naughty challenges? Seattle’s homegrown fetish comedy show is It’s a comedy show for virgins, kinksters, puppies, yuppies, and everyone who’s jerked off to something questionable. We demonstrate kinks on willing comics – during their sets!
Over four years of demented kinky comedy challenges have included:
11:00 a.m. – 2:00 p.m.
Gallery Erato, 309 1st Avenue South, Seattle 98104
Cost: $5 recommended donation
Link (group): https://fetlife.com/groups/42882 (requires login)
Link (event): https://fetlife.com/events/1310210 (requires login)
Description:
Please join us for some in-person tying and rope discussion on our regularly scheduled second Saturday of each month. NOTE: Please inquire on Fetlife if this month’s event is happening.
WREG is a peer learning space featuring demos and group discussion; it is not intended to be a class. We aim to empower fem-identifying, trans, and non-binary rope tops. Male and masc-identifying people are welcome to attend as bottoms and to self-tie.
11:00 a.m. – 8:00 p.m.
Wild Waves, 36201 Enchanted Pkwy S, Federal Way 98003
Cost: $32
Link: https://www.facebook.com/POCkinkseattle/
Description: We’re going to Wild Waves on July 8th. Come get wet with us.
2:00 p.m. – 4:00 p.m.
The Cuff Complex, 1533 13th Avenue, Seattle 98122
Cost: None
Link: https://seapah.com/public/schedule/events/48837-sea-pah-monthly-open-mosh
Description:
Our Open Monthly Mosh is back and open to the entire community! Come on down to the Cuff Dance Floor for a mosh with SEA-PAH.
IMPORTANT! Please be sure that if you bring it in, you take it home, even if the items are disposable in nature. And no outside food or drinks, please.
As always, the board of SEA-PAH will continue to work with our venues and follow CDC guidelines. If there are any changes, we will put out an announcement and update our website.
5:00 p.m. – 7:00 p.m.
Doghouse Leathers, 715 E Pike St, Seattle 98122
Cost: None, but bootblacking starter kits are available for $20
Link: https://seapah.com/public/schedule/events/53045-leep-class-bootblacking-101-by-aj
Description:
I’m AJ your current Washington State Bootblacking Platypus and, with my assistant Kittn the Bootblack, I’m here to teach you how to love on your gear. This is a basic leather care 101 with a little extra sauce for keeping your other gear up to snuff. Bring whatever you have for supplies and your gear that you’d like to work on. A get you started kit will be available for purchase for $20.
This class does not require you to pre-register, but know that seating is limited and will be first come, first served.
6:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m.
Location on Cap Hill given upon registration
Cost: $15 suggested donation includes a 15’ hank of rope. 30’ hanks available for $30
Link: TBD
Description:
This will be a face-to-face rope bondage workshop located in Capitol Hill, Seattle. You must be 18+. This is a beginner-level rope bondage class. It is fully inclusive and open for individuals of all genders, sexual orientations, ethnicities, and skill levels. No prior knowledge/experience is required. Participants are encouraged to come with a partner/s but it is not required. Participants may come to the workshop alone without a partner. You will be expected to participate in active tying throughout the class.
The suggested donation of $15 comes with a complimentary 15’ of shibari-grade jute rope. You can also choose to purchase 30’ of shibari-grade jute rope at $30, instead or in addition. You can pay online with venmo during online registration or with cash in person at the door.
4:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.
Phoenix Comics & Games, 113 Broadway E, Seattle 98102
Cost: None
Link: www.xlbears.org. Current information is more easily found in the Telegram chat group, click here to join.
Description:
Join the XL Bears for board games, MtG and socializing at their monthly game night.
6:30 p.m. – 9:30 p.m.
Address given upon registration
Cost: None, but donations encouraged
Link: https://seattleleather.org/events-lite/rope-lab
Description:
SLSC RopeLab is a collaborative men’s rope bondage community for experienced rope riggers to workshop and practice rope techniques. This is a space for gay and bisexual men, transmen, and other male presenting people to participate in ropework peer-learning skillshare.
There is no evaluation/requirement for proof of skill level. If you feel you have the necessary skills to participate, you are encouraged to attend. However, the focus of RopeLab Seattle will always highlight the needs of our community’s advanced riggers – RopeLab Seattle is not the place to learn your first knots, but once you have those down (having learned them at one of many great events such as Men Tying Men or a ropes class facilitated by SLSC) you are encouraged and welcome to join SLSC RopeLab.
7:00 p.m. – 10:00 p.m.
The Mix, 635 St. Helens Avenue, Tacoma 98402
Cost: None
Link: https://www.facebook.com/TacomaLeatherSocial
Description: Tacoma’s twice monthly LGBTQ+ leather/kink/fetish social
6:00 p.m. – 10:00 p.m.
CC Attle’s, 1701 East Olive Way, Seattle 98122
Cost: None, but be sure to tip your bootblack!
Link: https://www.facebook.com/events/273106668658961
Description: Are you interested in being a Bootblack? Do you have leather that needs some loving care? Come support local bootblacks and let them provide the loving care that your leather deserves. This event is also for questions, education, and mentorship for bootblacks.
There will be two Bootblack stands this month.
The featured Bootblack this month: Table (they/them) is an experienced, local, queer bootblack who draws on their ability to care for your leather pieces while honoring the stories they hold.
9:00 a.m. – 11:00 a.m.
Henna Blueberry Farm, 32500 NE 60th St, Carnation, 98014
Cost: $3.35 per pound of berries you pick
Link: https://xlbears.org/
Description: Come out to Carnation to join the bears on our annual blueberry picking!
Henna Blueberry Farm has been our choice for blueberry picking for years. They have a variety of blueberries, all tasting different. Price is $3.35/lb. They accept cash, card, and Venmo.
If you can help carpool, or require a ride, please join our Telegram carpool group!
6:30 p.m. door, 7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m. show
Cryptatropa Bar, 421 4th Ave E, Olympia 98501
Cost: $23.43 general admission online, $28.79 reserved seating online (recommended for parties of 4+), or $25 at the door
Link: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/safeword-cryptatropa-bar-olympia-wa-tickets-622769208467
Description:
Ever wanted to see hilarious performers pushed to their limits with naughty challenges? Seattle’s homegrown fetish comedy show is It’s a comedy show for virgins, kinksters, puppies, yuppies, and everyone who’s jerked off to something questionable. We demonstrate kinks on willing comics – during their sets!
Over four years of demented kinky comedy challenges have included:
Check out https://www.instagram.com/safewordcomedy for some photo examples.
Noon – 6:00 p.m.
Woodinville (address given upon registration)
Cost: $20 general, $100 VIP
Link: https://www.mxpucksaplenty.com/queersonthelawn2023
Description:
Join your hostexx Mx. Pucks A’Plenty for a lazy summer hang for queers ONLY! VIP Admission includes VIP tent access, designated seating/lounging, house servers, snacks, nonalcoholic beverages, and front row seat for performances.
3:00 p.m. – 6:00 p.m.
CC Attle’s, 1701 East Olive Way, Seattle 98122
Cost: Free
Link: https://wslo.info/events/wslo-community-social/
Description:
Washington State Leather Organization is now hosting a monthly Community Social. Come join us every 4th Saturday of the month at CC’s.
Our goal is to get all Washington State Organizations (leather/fetish, drag, bear, and more) back to our roots of supporting each other, as well as networking.
This event does not have a dress code, but we do encourage you to dress to represent your organization. Feel free to invite anyone you like (age 21+), because this event is open to the community. We look forward to seeing you there!
7:00 p.m.
Diesel, 1413 14th Ave, Seattle, 98122
Cost: Free
Link: None
A gathering for fisters of all skill levels every fourth Thursday. Catch up with old friends and make new ones.
7:00 p.m. – 10:00 p.m.
The Mix, 635 St. Helens Avenue, Tacoma 98402
Cost: None
Link: https://www.facebook.com/TacomaLeatherSocial
Description: Tacoma’s twice monthly LGBTQ+ leather/kink/fetish social
8:00 p.m. – 2:00 a.m.
CC Attles, 1701 East Olive Way, Seattle 98122
Cost: None
Link: www.xlbears.org. Current information is more easily found in the Telegram chat group, click here to join.
Description: The XL Bear Bust moves to every fourth Friday starting 28 July! Socialize with Seattle’s friendliest bears at their monthly bar night.
3:00 p.m. – 7:00 p.m.
Q Sauna & Spa, 17420 Highway 99, Lynwood 98037
Cost: $40 sauna & spa admission fee
Link: www.xlbears.org. Current information is more easily found in the Telegram chat group, click here to join.
Description:
Spend some time with the XL Bears relaxing at a Korean spa!
6:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m.
Location on Cap Hill given upon registration
Cost: $15 suggested donation includes a 15’ hank of rope. 30’ hanks available for $30
Info/registration: https://seattleleather.org/events-lite/spring-23-predicament-bondage/
Description:
This will be a face-to-face rope bondage workshop located in Capitol Hill, Seattle. You must be 18+. This is a beginner-level rope bondage class. It is fully inclusive and open for individuals of all genders, sexual orientations, ethnicities, and skill levels. No prior knowledge/experience is required. Participants are encouraged to come with a partner/s but it is not required. Participants may come to the workshop alone without a partner. You will be expected to participate in active tying throughout the class.
The suggested donation of $15 comes with a complimentary 15’ of shibari-grade jute rope. You can also choose to purchase 30’ of shibari-grade jute rope at $30, instead or in addition. You can pay online with venmo during online registration or with cash in person at the door.
7:00 p.m. new member orientation (if not already a member), party 8:00 p.m. – Midnight
Gallery Erato, 309 1st Ave S, Seattle, WA 98104
Cost: $30 members, $35 nonmembers (includes membership, must arrive for new member orientation at 7:00 p.m.)
Link to new member orientation: https://thecspc.org/events/orientation-laqueer/2023/july
Link to party: https://thecspc.org/events/laqueer/2023/july
Description:
LaQueer is back and ready to welcome the CSPC’s queer community for safer kinky and sexy fun. We welcome all kinds of play and sex that are allowed under the CSPC’s rules, and welcome people all across the various spectra of queer identity. We will have rope suspension points, kink equipment like spanking benches and racks, and space for everything from cuddles to needles.
This event is for queer folx and their friends! “Queer” here is used as an umbrella term for anyone who identifies as not-heterosexual or not-cisgender, including but not limited to people who identify as: gay, lesbian, bisexual, genderqueer, agender, bigender, transgender, third gender, trans, genderfluid, gaymo, bicurious, asexual, homosexual, homofabulous, homoflexible, heteroflexible, intersex, questioning, pansexual, MTF, FTM, butch, femme, fag, dyke. If you identify with one of these groups, then this party is for you!
8:00 p.m. – close
CC Attle’s, 1701 E Olive Way, Seattle 98122
Cost: Free
Link: https://www.facebook.com/events/261474226492949/
Description:
Come out for CC’s annual Pink Party and visit the Bearbie Dream House. Pink it up and “listen to the beat of your heart and keep on dancing.” Think pink and join us for an evening filled with flamingos, palm trees, great music, and DJ lighting. Come on Bearbie, let’s go party.
11:00 a.m. – 2:00 p.m.
Denny Blaine Park/Nude Beach
Cost: Free
Link: https://fetlife.com/events/1304573
Description:
Hitchin’ Bitches is a safe space for female-identified, as well as genderqueer, gender nonbinary, and trans* riggers/rope tops/dominants (sorry, no unaccompanied cismen) to learn, share, and experience rope firsthand based upon the peer-to-peer and un-conference learning and sharing concepts.
At HB, we do things a little different than other rope groups. Our first hour is designated to get to know each other and for peer to peer learning. We do this by facilitating group chats. Hosting guest presentations and demos. After all, we are here to build rope community, not just tie.
Introductions and Group Chat will start approx 15 minutes after opening doors, then we will break off for practice time at noon. This is a drop-in event, but if you are looking to join the discussion, try to be on time, please.
7:00 p.m.
The Mix, 635 Saint Helens Ave., Tacoma 98402
Cost: $1/board
Link: None
Description:
Join host Pinkos for smut trivia and dirty nasty prizes every fourth Sunday at The Mix in Tacoma.
August Preview
In addition to the recurring events happening in August, we encourage you to mark your calendars for the events below.
Capitol Hill, Seattle – Exact location given upon registration
Cost: None, but donations encouraged
Info/registration: https://seattleleather.org/events-lite/intro-to-breath-control/
Description:
Ever wonder exactly what breath control is, including how to perform it as safely as possible? The instructor, John, will show you just how diverse, exciting, and edgy this unique form of BDSM can be. He will demonstrate many techniques live, so this is the chance for you — be you top or bottom — to witness breath control performed by a seasoned hand in person. There’s likely more variety than you think, and now you can learn how to add this uncommon form of control and sadism to your favorite scenes.
For those attending with a partner and if time allows, the instructor will provide hands-on instruction toward the end of the class.
This is an in-person class located on Capitol Hill, Seattle. You must be 18+. This class is fully inclusive and open for individuals of all genders, sexual orientations, ethnicities, and skill levels. This is a beginner-level class: No prior knowledge/experience is required.
Capitol Hill, Seattle – Address given upon registration
Cost: Free, but donations accepted/encouraged
Info/registration: https://seattleleather.org/events-lite/body-service-massage-evil/
Description:
Massage can be relaxing, soothing, and healing, but as anyone who has received a deep tissue massage can affirm, it can also be intense, surprising, and painful – all great traits for BDSM scenes!
Body Service: Massage Evil is the second class in the two-part Body Service series taught by Beca (she/her). In part one, Beca covered basic anatomy and techniques to rub the body in a sensuous, connecting, relaxing, rewarding way.
In part 2, you will learn the important differences between techniques for relaxation and versus more sadistic play. Starting with basic safety, Beca will then demonstrate 5 easy-to-locate therapeutic pressure and muscle release points and how to manipulate them. There will then be time for (optional) guided, negotiated hands-on practice with a partner.
Attendees are encouraged to wear clothing that is easy to move in and not too bulky. If you have a portable massage table, you are welcome to bring it, but note that the venue is up one flight of stairs.
Content warning: While the focus of the class is not nudity, there may be partial nudity.
This is an in-person class located on Capitol Hill, Seattle. You must be 18+. This class is fully inclusive and open for individuals of all genders, sexual orientations, ethnicities, and skill levels.
Redmond – Exact location given upon registration
Cost: $100
Link: https://www.facebook.com/events/599427991999033
Description:
A special Pleasure Hole Seattle queer, kink, black, indigenous and all people of color kinky campout weekend: “Made In Paradise” because connecting to and exploring our kinky selves leads to new galaxies of experiences and pleasure.
Limited Capacity has been set to provide intimacy and safety, so register early. Required check-in and space orientation will be held on Friday August 25th at 6:00 p.m. and Saturday August 26 at 12:00 p.m. and 5:00 p.m. If you do not make an orientation time, then you will not be able to attend.