The round-up of April’s queer-focused leather/kink/fetish events is here! There are many opportunities for local kinksters to connect and learn.
If you would like us to feature your queer-focused leather/kink/fetish event in our monthly posts, please fill out this form. If you know of one but aren’t the organizer, feel free to Contact Us and include what information you have.
8:00 p.m. – 2:00 a.m.
CC Attles, 1701 East Olive Way, Seattle 98122
Cost: None
Link: https://www.facebook.com/groups/CCATTLES (requires joining Facebook Group)
Description:
Every FIRST Saturday of the month is CC’s Seattle Fetish Night. Gear up in your favorite fetish attire and join your friends for a hot night of great drinks, and sexy surprises.
This month, come out and show off your comic fetish. From a hero to a villain or neither, wear something that makes you feel SUPER! Spandex is encouraged.
The dress code will be enforced; coat check available. Fetish Night is about expression, it is an event for gear or theme-based participants. NOT SPECTATORS! If your fetish is not gear-based or is about voyeurism, this event is not for you.
FETISH NIGHT DRESS CODE (abridged by SLSC; any questions, please direct them to CC’s):
Leather, Uniform, Rubber, and Etcetera (L.U.R.E.) is the standard for Fetish Night. Etcetera applies to an unlisted fetish/kink’s gear, like a fursuit, singlet, or age play.
PRIORITY ACCESS
GENERAL ACCESS
NO ACCESS – No Effort, No Entry!
*NOTE: Footwear, wrist/armbands, handkerchiefs, and etcetera count as ONE piece of L.U.R.E., not TWO or more. In other words, doubling up on the same item (e.g., two armbands) doesn’t count as two different pieces of L.U.R.E! Also, a belt will not count as a piece of L.U.R.E. for an outfit. THE DOOR HAS THE FINAL SAY!
10:00 p.m. – late
Seattle Eagle, 314 E Pike Street, Seattle 98122
Cost: $12.74 first 100 advance tickets, $20 at the door
Link: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/leather-sweat-tickets-580872604597
Description:
Leather and Sweat just got sweatier, now at Seattle Eagle! Enjoy their dance floor, sexy space, outdoor patio, and incredible sound/lighting. Clothes check available, so bring your hottest gear, and get ready to dance all night to beats by the fabulous DJ Matt Stands! NOTE: In our experience, Seattle Eagle does not follow county health codes and allows/ignores smoking on its patio.
4:00 p.m. – Midnight
CC Attle’s, 1701 East Olive Way, Seattle 98122
Cost: None
Link: www.xlbears.org. Current information is more easily found in the Telegram chat group, click here to join.
Description:
Socialize with Seattle’s friendliest bears at their monthly bar night.
5:00 p.m. – 10:00 p.m.
Lumber Yard Bar, 9630 16th Ave S, Seattle 98106
Cost: Free
Description:
Calling all kinksters to join us every first Monday of the month for All Tied Up: a social night for our community members into BDSM/fetish/kink. Come out to play, socialize and show off! Priority entry for those in fetish gear. Wax, electro, sensation, pet, littles, rope etc. play welcome. We cannot accommodate impact, fire or blood play.
8:00 p.m. – 10:00 p.m.
Online event
Cost: Free for CSPC members, $5 for nonmembers
Link: https://thecspc.org/events/queer-discussion-group/2023/mar
Description:
Come join our hosts Jadzia and Elissa on first Tuesdays as we welcome people from all across the kinky and sex-positive queer community. Our focus during this discussion group will be on all the ways our queer identities interact with our kink and sex-positive lives. As queer people, we experience unique challenges and the CSPC is proud to offer a place to celebrate and commiserate through sharing experiences.
We’ll spend the first portion of the meeting checking in about what’s going on in our lives. The rest is spent discussing topics that explore how we navigate our understanding of ourselves and our relationships with others, our society, kink and how we can strive for more self-knowledge and happiness.
8:30 p.m. door, 9:00 p.m – 11:00 p.m. show
Olmstead, 314 Broadway E, Seattle 98122
Cost: $23.45 general admission, $25 reserved seating
Link: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/munch-kinky-queer-cabaret-march-2nd-tickets-531227675277
Description:
A curated lineup featuring some of the Northwest’s finest queer artists. Innocent & experienced performers will share titillations about their kinkiest moments, live! It’s a big spin on the traditional munch, but I’ve worked hard to include the core elements of a munch in this show.
First the host will share their stories of love, lust and lube. Then we’ll be transfixed with titillating performances from Willy Nilly (burlesque, drag), Rita LaRue (drag), Sneaky Boo (comedy, burlesque) and others.
We have a fabulous raffle sponsored by Fantasy Unlimited. Reserved seating recommended for parties of 4+; reserved tickets receive 2x free entries into the raffle and premium seating.
6:00 p.m. – 10:00 p.m.
CC Attle’s, 1701 East Olive Way, Seattle 98122
Cost: None
Link: https://seapah.com/public/schedule/events/40940-sea-pah-meet-sniff-social
Description:
Come be social during SEA-PAH’s monthly Meet & Sniff! Meet up with some old friends, make some new ones, and join with other members of the Pack as we invade The Cuff. Please be aware that Cuff begins charging a cover at 9:00 p.m.
Just a reminder we share the space with multiple other social groups. Please be kind and welcoming to them as well.
As always, the Board of SEA-PAH will continue to work with our venues and follow CDC guidelines. If there are any changes, we will put out an announcement and update our website.
7:30 p.m. door, 8:00 p.m. – 10:00 p.m. show
Kremwerk, 1809 Minor Avenue, Seattle 98122
Cost: $23.79 online, $25 at the door
Link: https://link.dice.fm/Safeword/AprilGoldenShowers
Description:
Ever wanted to see hilarious performers pushed to their limits with naughty challenges? Seattle’s homegrown fetish comedy show is It’s a comedy show for virgins, kinksters, puppies, yuppies, and everyone who’s jerked off to something questionable. We demonstrate kinks on willing comics – during their sets!
Over four years of demented kinky comedy challenges have included:
11:00 a.m. – 2:00 p.m.
Gallery Erato, 309 1st Avenue South, Seattle 98104
Cost: $5 recommended donation
Link (group): https://fetlife.com/groups/42882 (requires login)
Link (event): https://fetlife.com/events/1268801 (requires login)
Description:
Please join us for some in-person tying and rope discussion on our regularly scheduled second Saturday of each month. NOTE: Please inquire on Fetlife if this month’s event is happening.
WREG is a peer learning space featuring demos and group discussion; it is not intended to be a class. We aim to empower fem-identifying, trans, and non-binary rope tops. Male and masc-identifying people are welcome to attend as bottoms and to self-tie.
12:15 p.m. – 1:15 p.m.
Doghouse Leathers, 715 E Pike St, Seattle 98122
Cost: None?
Link: https://seapah.com/public/schedule/events/50868-leep-presents-puppy-101
Description:
This month before our mosh we’re bringing back our most requested LEEP class, it’s Puppy 101! Join pups Spike and Flash as they go over the basics of puppy play, the g-rated stuff, anyway. This is a perfect opportunity for new members and those intrigued by it to learn more about pup play. The class can only hold a maximum of 20 students, so it’s first come, first served.
2:00 p.m. – 4:00 p.m.
The Cuff Complex, 1533 13th Avenue, Seattle 98122
Cost: None
Link: https://seapah.com/public/schedule/events/48832-sea-pah-monthly-open-mosh
Description:
Our Open Monthly Mosh is back and open to the entire community! Come on down to the Cuff Dance Floor for a mosh with SEA-PAH.
IMPORTANT! Please be sure that if you bring it in, you take it home, even if the items are disposable in nature. And no outside food or drinks, please.
As always, the board of SEA-PAH will continue to work with our venues and follow CDC guidelines. If there are any changes, we will put out an announcement and update our website.
6:00 p.m. munch and mixer, 8:00 p.m. intro to dungeon, 8:30 p.m. – 4:00 a.m. pool party
Location given upon registration
Cost: $30 advance, $35 general
Link: https://forbiddentickets.com/events/pleasure-hole-seattle/2023-04-08-adult-swim
Description:
Prepare for the best pool party ever! Clothing optional swimming, hot tub, music by Latinx nonbinary DJ Exesive, a live special performance, and all the kink play your heart can handle! BIPOC folks only, all bodies, all genders. No lifeguard on duty. Swim with care.
7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.
The Rec Room, 14920 Highway 99 #130, Lynwood 98087
Cost: None
Link: TBA
Description:
A social on the North end for PNW leather queers to connect, every second Saturday with rotating hosts. This month’s hosts are Jae and Leda.
The Rec Room is a POC-owned, inclusive dive bar, with lots of outdoor and indoor space, free pool, darts, and a super casual atmosphere. Join us!
Leather gear encouraged but not required.
Accessibility information:
10:00 p.m.
Seattle Eagle, 314 E Pike St, Seattle 98122
Cost: $23.18 after fees
Link: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/pigdaddy-the-eagle-seattle-tickets-527886511767
Description:
For the first time, PigDaddy comes from Palm Springs to Seattle. Direct from NYC, DJs Justin Cudmore (The Bunker) and Waly Verdun (Saint At Large) spinning the best in bouncy vocal house, nudisco, and tech house all night long. Superstar lineup of amazing PigDaddy alums direct from SoCal to dance and flirt all night long: Devin Franco, Rico TV, and Judas King.
4:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m.
Phoenix Comics & Games, 113 Broadway East, Seattle 98102
Cost: None
Link: www.xlbears.org. Current information is more easily found in the Telegram chat group, click here to join.
Description:
Come join us for our monthly game night!
6:00 p.m. – 8:30 p.m.
Gallery Erato, 309 1st Ave S, Seattle, WA 98104
Cost: $5 suggested donation to Pan-Eros Foundation
Link: https://seattleleather.org/events-lite/ropelab-winter-rope-jam-collab-tying-all-shapes-sizes/
Description:
This month, SLSC RopeLab is collaborating with Winter Rope Jam for a skillshare on Tying All Shapes & Sizes! Unlike prior RopeLabs, no RSVP is necessary for this event. There is a $5 suggested donation to help support the venue.
People of all gender identities, sexual orientations, skill levels – and especially of all body sizes and shapes – are welcome. That means everyone!
RopeLab is not an instructive class; it’s a skillshare for folks to “show up and tie” and learn from one another. If you’d like an instructive class on this topic, SLSC has a class in the works tentatively scheduled for 18 May. Mark your calendars!
Winter Rope Jam is the winter programming of the pansexual Outdoor Rope Group (ORG) that meets at Gas Works Park during summer. You can find their events on FetLife and at the Pan-Eros Foundation website.
7:00 p.m. – 10:00 p.m.
The Mix, 635 St. Helens Avenue, Tacoma 98402
Cost: None
Link: https://www.facebook.com/TacomaLeatherSocial
Description:
Twice monthly LGBTQ+ leather/kink/fetish social
6:00 p.m. – 7:30 p.m.
Capitol Hill, Seattle, location given upon RSVP
Cost: Free, but donations encouraged
Link: https://seattleleather.org/events-lite/ffuck-yeah-a-beginners-guide-to-fisting-2/
Description:
Are you looking for your first fisting experience? Whether you are wanting to top or bottom, this class is for you!
Koda returns to teach the ins and outs of fisting, covering safety, tools, techniques, and more! While the content was developed for beginners, all skill levels are welcome, and no prior knowledge/experience required.
This is a lecture-style class ending with a 15- to 30-minute fisting demo that is open to questions. The demo will involve nudity and insertive fisting. If that makes anyone uncomfortable, they are encouraged to leave when Koda begins to set up the demonstration. The demo is not a hands-on (hands-in?) experience for the attendees, only for Koda and his demo buddy.
11:00 a.m. – 2:00 p.m.
Subspace Tukwila, address given upon RSVP
Cost: $10
Link: https://fetlife.com/events/1248796
Description:
Hitchin’ Bitches is a safe space for female identified, as well as genderqueer, gender non-binary, and trans* riggers/rope tops/dominants to learn, share, and experience rope first hand based upon the Peer-to-Peer and un-conference learning and sharing concepts.
At HB, we do things a little different then other rope groups. Our first hour is designated to get to know each other and for peer to peer learning. We do this by facilitating group chats. Hosting guest presentations and demos. After all, we are here to build rope community, not just tie.
Introductions and Group Chat will start approximately 15 minutes after opening doors, then we will break off for practice time at noon. This is a drop-in event, but if you are looking to join the discussion, try to be on time, please.
Address will be sent to those marked attending the event. If you have questions or need encouragement, DM @BlkStar on FetLife. Always happy to give those that are timid an extra push!
6:30 p.m. door, 7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m. show
Cryptatropa Bar, 421 4th Ave E, Olympia 98501
Cost: $23.43 general admission online, $28.79 reserved seating online (recommended for parties of 4+), or $25 at the door
Link: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/safeword-cryptatropa-bar-olympia-wa-tickets-582390043297
Description:
Ever wanted to see hilarious performers pushed to their limits with naughty challenges? Seattle’s homegrown fetish comedy show is It’s a comedy show for virgins, kinksters, puppies, yuppies, and everyone who’s jerked off to something questionable. We demonstrate kinks on willing comics – during their sets!
Over four years of demented kinky comedy challenges have included:
Check out https://www.instagram.com/safewordcomedy for some photo examples.
3:00 p.m. – 6:00 p.m.
CC Attles, 1701 East Olive Way, Seattle 98122
Cost: None
Link: https://wslo.info/events/wslo-community-social/
Description:
Come join WSLO and many of Seattle’s local queer kink, fetish, leather, drag, bear organizations and businesses as we socialize and network every second Saturday of the month at CC Attle’s on Cap Hill. Members of the community interested in learning more about local orgs and getting involved with them are highly encouraged to attend!
Groups involved have included Doghouse Leather, House of Shenanigans, Knights of Mantra, SEA-PAH, SgoL, The Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, SLSC, and XL Bears.
This event does not have a dress code, but org reps/members are encouraged to represent their organizations in their dress. We look forward to seeing you there!
7:00 p.m.
The Mix, 635 St. Helens Avenue, Tacoma 98402
Cost: $1/round to play, no cover
Link: N/A
Description:
Every 4th Sunday, join Pinkos for Kinky Bingo at The Mix in Tacoma.
7:00 p.m. – 10:00 p.m.
The Mix, 635 St. Helens Avenue, Tacoma 98402
Cost: None
Link: https://www.facebook.com/TacomaLeatherSocial
Description:
Twice monthly LGBTQ+ leather/kink/fetish social
6:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m.
Capitol Hill
Cost: $15 for 15ft or $30 for 30ft of shibari grade jute rope
Link: https://seattleleather.org/events-lite/spring-23-bedroom-bondage/
Description:
This will be a face-to-face rope bondage workshop located in Capitol Hill, Seattle. You must be 18+. This is a beginner-level rope bondage class. It is fully inclusive and open for individuals of all genders, sexual orientations, ethnicities, and skill levels. No prior knowledge/experience is required. Participants are encouraged to come with a partner/s but it is not required. Participants may come to the workshop alone without a partner. You will be expected to participate in active tying throughout the class.
3:00 p.m. – 7:00 p.m.
Q Sauna & Spa, 17420 Highway 99, Lynwood 98037
Cost: $40 sauna & spa admission fee
Link: www.xlbears.org. Current information is more easily found in the Telegram chat group, click here to join.
Description:
Spend some time with the XL Bears relaxing at a Korean spa!
7:00 p.m. new member orientation (if not already a member), party 8:00 p.m. – Midnight
Gallery Erato, 309 1st Ave S, Seattle, WA 98104
Cost: $25 members, $35 nonmembers (includes membership, must arrive for new member orientation at 7:00 p.m.)
Link to new member orientation: https://thecspc.org/events/orientation-laqueer/2023/apr
Link to party: https://thecspc.org/events/laqueer/2023/apr
Description:
LaQueer is back and ready to welcome the CSPC’s queer community for safer kinky and sexy fun. We welcome all kinds of play and sex that are allowed under the CSPC’s rules, and welcome people all across the various spectra of queer identity. We will have rope suspension points, kink equipment like spanking benches and racks, and space for everything from cuddles to needles.
This event is for queer folx and their friends! “Queer” here is used as an umbrella term for anyone who identifies as not-heterosexual or not-cisgender, including but not limited to people who identify as: gay, lesbian, bisexual, genderqueer, agender, bigender, transgender, third gender, trans, genderfluid, gaymo, bicurious, asexual, homosexual, homofabulous, homoflexible, heteroflexible, intersex, questioning, pansexual, MTF, FTM, butch, femme, fag, dyke. If you identify with one of these groups, then this party is for you!
In addition to the recurring events happening in April, we encourage you to mark your calendars for the events below.
5:00 p.m. – 10:00 p.m.
Lumber Yard Bar, 9630 16th Ave S, Seattle 98106
Cost: Free
Description:
Calling all kinksters to join us every first Monday of the month for All Tied Up: a social night for our community members into BDSM/fetish/kink. Come out to play, socialize and show off! Priority entry for those in fetish gear. Wax, electro, sensation, pet, littles, rope etc. play welcome. We cannot accommodate impact, fire or blood play.
8:00 p.m. – 10:00 p.m.
Online event
Cost: Free for CSPC members, $5 for nonmembers
Link: https://thecspc.org/events/queer-discussion-group/2023/may
Description:
Come join our hosts Jadzia and Elissa on first Tuesdays as we welcome people from all across the kinky and sex-positive queer community. Our focus during this discussion group will be on all the ways our queer identities interact with our kink and sex-positive lives. As queer people, we experience unique challenges and the CSPC is proud to offer a place to celebrate and commiserate through sharing experiences.
We’ll spend the first portion of the meeting checking in about what’s going on in our lives. The rest is spent discussing topics that explore how we navigate our understanding of ourselves and our relationships with others, our society, kink and how we can strive for more self-knowledge and happiness.
7:00 p.m. – 10:00 p.m.
Steamworks Seattle, 1520 Summit Ave, Seattle 98122
Cost: $5 membership, $19 for a locker
Link: https://fetlife.com/events/1272985
Description:
Male spankos monthly get-together. Rentals are good for 8 hours, so you can come early or stay later as well.
8:30 p.m. door, 9:00 p.m – 11:00 p.m. show
Olmstead, 314 Broadway E, Seattle 98122
Cost: $18.10 early bird, $23.45 general admission, $25 reserved seating
Link: https://www.facebook.com/GutterTwinkComedy
Description:
A curated lineup featuring some of the Northwest’s finest queer artists. Innocent & experienced performers will share titillations about their kinkiest moments, live! It’s a big spin on the traditional munch, but I’ve worked hard to include the core elements of a munch in this show.
First the host will share their stories of love, lust and lube. Then we’ll be transfixed with titillating performances.
We have a fabulous raffle sponsored by Fantasy Unlimited. Reserved seating recommended for parties of 4+; reserved tickets receive 2x free entries into the raffle and premium seating.
7:30 p.m. door, 8:00 p.m. – 10:00 p.m. show
Kremwerk, 1809 Minor Avenue, Seattle 98122
Cost: $23.79 online, $25 at the door
Link: https://link.dice.fm/Safeword/AprilGoldenShowers
Description:
Ever wanted to see hilarious performers pushed to their limits with naughty challenges? Seattle’s homegrown fetish comedy show is It’s a comedy show for virgins, kinksters, puppies, yuppies, and everyone who’s jerked off to something questionable. We demonstrate kinks on willing comics – during their sets!
Over four years of demented kinky comedy challenges have included:
8:00 p.m. – 2:00 a.m.
CC Attles, 1701 East Olive Way, Seattle 98122
Cost: None
Link: https://www.facebook.com/groups/CCATTLES (requires joining Facebook Group)
Description:
Every FIRST Saturday of the month is CC’s Seattle Fetish Night. Gear up in your favorite fetish attire and join your friends for a hot night of great drinks, and sexy surprises.
Come on out and show off your junk and trunk in your favorite running, soccer, football, rugby, Olympic, daisy dukes, etc!
The dress code will be enforced; coat check available. Fetish Night is about expression, it is an event for gear or theme-based participants. NOT SPECTATORS! If your fetish is not gear-based or is about voyeurism, this event is not for you.
FETISH NIGHT DRESS CODE (abridged by SLSC; any questions, please direct them to CC’s):
Leather, Uniform, Rubber, and Etcetera (L.U.R.E.) is the standard for Fetish Night. Etcetera applies to an unlisted fetish/kink’s gear, like a fursuit, singlet, or age play.
PRIORITY ACCESS
GENERAL ACCESS
NO ACCESS – No Effort, No Entry!
*NOTE: Footwear, wrist/armbands, handkerchiefs, and etcetera count as ONE piece of L.U.R.E., not TWO or more. In other words, doubling up on the same item (e.g., two armbands) doesn’t count as two different pieces of L.U.R.E! Also, a belt will not count as a piece of L.U.R.E. for an outfit. THE DOOR HAS THE FINAL SAY!
4:00 p.m. – Midnight
CC Attles, 1701 East Olive Way, Seattle 98122
Cost: None
Link: www.xlbears.org. Current information is more easily found in the Telegram chat group, click here to join.
Description:
Socialize with Seattle’s friendliest bears at their monthly bar night.